Why is it a guy will speak to you consistently and then suddenly stop?

And I'm not speaking of not responding within a few hours to a day or two I'm speaking well over a week or more and then suddenly pop back in ? 🤔 I've also heard women do this too apparently according to some men.
It boggles my mind. 👀

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PhaedraIsMyName

That drives me fecking bonkers. I have a friend like that. Been online buddies for a year even though we only live 10 miles from each other. He is such a tease. I just cut off communication with him last week. He is so damn beautiful its hard to stay away but...fuck that guy.

Hold your ground girl. We always want the seemingly unattainable. Cut him off. He will be back. I put good money on it.

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PhaedraIsMyName

No need to worry about whether he will come back or not. The universe is infinite. Bit if there was a spark, he will be back.

It's when you ate not seeking fulfillment that life's most satisfying opportunities find you.

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PhaedraIsMyName

@thinkbigaboutlife Why did he break up with you?

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PhaedraIsMyName

@thinkbigaboutlife My experience has been that most relationships are salvageable. I guess my advice to you is don't wait. Move on. Keep the love in your heart but don't pine for him. I know that is easier said than done...but try anyway. You will feel better for it. Good luck!

thinkbigaboutlife · F

did you write a 'goodbye ' note, or you have simply deleted/blocked your guy friend? and what about your other relationships in the past that you had to drop?

PhaedraIsMyName

@thinkbigaboutlife with the current guy, I just deleted our communication method (kik).

I didn't say goodbye.

thinkbigaboutlife · F

didn't block either?

PhaedraIsMyName

@thinkbigaboutlife no. But I think your situation is different because you were in a relationship, yes? In any event, blocking is re a served for pervs and stalkers, not people you care about

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PhaedraIsMyName

@thinkbigaboutlife Don't block him. That is retaliation for how you feel now but that will change over time. Instead, focus your energy on things you want to do. Your happiness is key.

thinkbigaboutlife · F

hmm, I will think about it...

thanks for your time...