Why is it a guy will speak to you consistently and then suddenly stop?

And I'm not speaking of not responding within a few hours to a day or two I'm speaking well over a week or more and then suddenly pop back in ? 🤔 I've also heard women do this too apparently according to some men.
It boggles my mind. 👀

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thinkbigaboutlife · F

apparently they want to make you wonder more, thus they think they will be more attractive in your eyes if they ghost your a while. Some will do that too when they realize you ''like'' them... it's scary to some. It's a man thing. Don't take it personally. He'll come around if he likes you too. Good luck.

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Stark

@thinkbigaboutlife well I was just asking in general kinda. 😅 But I especially don't play games like that if I feel this is how the situation is I would end the relationship/friendship. If he really likes me there should be no need to come around he should express it openly and not want to play mind games if he's mature that is.

thinkbigaboutlife · F

@isupportalexwubbels really? I heard that only men do that. I have never heard of women doing that unless they think he is so annoying. I am not talking about "playing hard to get". Yes, women do that too. But the talking, talking, and suddenly disappearing or ignoring, no, it's a man thing.

thinkbigaboutlife · F

@Stark ah sorry. I thought you were in that situation presently.