How can I better our relationship?

We are not officially dating but we act as if we were. We both want to grow in our faith and get to know each other better. So what is something I could do to not lose any seriousness between us and to slow things down.
P.S. We are not struggling in anything, everything is going well.

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Lickitysplit · 70-79, M

Not sure about the slowing things down bit. However, to the other point, take turns planning day trips to places that are meaningful to each of you -- park, zoo, museum, art gallery, and so forth. You need to understand and keep in mind that the single thing that is most on the mind of almost all men your age is the one things you seem to be trying to avoid -- sex. It is biological and is almost impossible for a man to completely suppress no matter how hard he tries or how much he wants. Therefore, avoid situations where the two of you are alone in a situation that enables physical intimacy. Surround yourselves with friends, parents, etc. Do things that strengthen your faith such as church-sponsored activities.