How can I better our relationship?

You're so wise to be looking at your relationship this way.

In my experience, it's important to stay conscious. Recognize what's going on inside of yourself when habitual behavior sneaks up on you - when there are reactions which might lead to suspicions, anger, feelings of being hurt in some way, maybe jealousy or envy. Those kind of things. (Everyone has unresolved issues which get triggered when their demons are confronted.) Recognize he's not responsible for any of that in you, and you're not responsible for the same kinds of things he might be thinking or feeling.

You're two individuals having relationships with yourselves which you're sharing with each other. Share your thoughts and feelings without pointing fingers at each other. No judgements and no criticisms will steer you away from slipping into codependency and old habits. Good honest, sincere communication is key. The intimacy found in sharing your deepest feelings about [i]anything[/i] - loves, fears, doubts, plans - will only bring you closer.

Your wanting to slow things down, is very smart. Sometimes going slowly is the fastest way to get somewhere. It helps to keep at bay any habitual behavior, and to keep consciousness and sensibility from being run over by the warm fuzzies. Form without content gets old very quickly. Check in often with yourselves and each other to keep the foundation of your relationship fresh.

It sounds like you've got a great thing going, and I think you're both fortunate to have each other in your lives.

All The Best.

Take your time and let yourselves grow together, if that's His plan for you.

Not sure about the slowing things down bit. However, to the other point, take turns planning day trips to places that are meaningful to each of you -- park, zoo, museum, art gallery, and so forth. You need to understand and keep in mind that the single thing that is most on the mind of almost all men your age is the one things you seem to be trying to avoid -- sex. It is biological and is almost impossible for a man to completely suppress no matter how hard he tries or how much he wants. Therefore, avoid situations where the two of you are alone in a situation that enables physical intimacy. Surround yourselves with friends, parents, etc. Do things that strengthen your faith such as church-sponsored activities.

Communicate about it and if this is asking what i think it is then i guess some good old self control would be your best bet.

Just be true to yourself and truthful to him.

The best way to slow things down and not get too excited is to take up some activity that keeps your mind off your situation. Giving yourself some breathing room is very helpful. Even if things are going well, you need some self care to balance things out

You are not struggling and everything is going well. Why change a thing?