Quick tip for anyone who is trying out online dating sites

Don't start your conversation with a compliment. Or a simple "hi", "sup", "what are you doing". Or asking the other for pics/their snapchat/etc.

You'd think people would be better at making people interested in talking to them than that

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iMystery · M

"Hi I noticed your profile mentioning you have an interest in [u][b]*Something shes interested in*[/b][/u]. I may not know much about the subject, but I would really like for you to tell me more about that, if you mind sharing that is.

Will patiently await your reply"

.... How does that work for you? 🤔

NorthernRoses · 26-30, F

@iMystery It's a bit too... formal? But otherwise it's fine.

iMystery · M

@NorthernRoses The idea is to spark a conversation about what SHE is interested in and giving the vibe that you are sincerely interested in learning about what she has to say... this is to break the ice and establish a sort of "common" ground.