Goralski · 56-60, M
Its not an engagement unless ya gotta ring and a date
AllISeeAreStars · 26-30, F
@Goralski Ring? Check. Date? We've set plenty, but something always comes up that we have to cancel. Deaths and such.
Do not get married until you have spoken to your ex. You have unresolved feelings. He told you he wished you two had never broken up? You need to speak to him. What if he is the one you should be with?
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Maybe contact his friend or family member. Just that you would like to speak with him, but don't have a wa to contact him.
AllISeeAreStars · 26-30, F
@MissMollyCharlotte0702 I've definitely thought about it. An old friend did give me his number a while back so I could text him.
There you go. Do it. If it doesn't go anywhere and he doesn't want to discuss anything or try anything then be done and move on.i would just hate to see you marry someone and you still have thoughts of someone else.@AllISeeAreStars
Just accept that you may have made a mistake. Then move on.
pearllederman · 61-69, F
i dont think so
bijouxbroussard · F
You're not horrible but you need to figure out what you want. If your ex doesn't want to get back together that simplifies things and you get to focus on whether or not you want to marry your fiancé. If you don't think you'll be happy with him, don't waste his time. But be honest with yourself, so you don't do anything you'll regret with him. We don't always get "do-overs" in this life. Sometimes you make a decision, you're stuck with it.