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Does it mean I am really ugly if no guy ever approaches me anywhere?

Do ugly girls get approached for dates? Because I am practically never approached anywhere for dates.
gmatthewb · 51-55, M
Why does the guy have to ask. Take a chance and ask a guy out yourself. Sure you will probably get turned down often, but eventually someone will say yes. That's what guys have been doing for years. Why do you think some women feel it important to start some conversations with "I'm not looking"
Fernie · F
@gmatthewb I don't need you to agree with me...you said 2 times that she should ask a guy out ...completely missing the point...if she feels ugly...it ain't gonna happen so why keep telling her to? I agree...women frequently feel ugly when in fact they are very pretty. Society and males create that. Which is what I meant by it being quite different for women than it is for males. A man can be very unattractive and still be accepted way more than a woman. It's cellular with women, we've been conditioned to feel that we are never attractive enough
gmatthewb · 51-55, M
@Fernie My apologies, it was only a suggestion.
Fernie · F
@gmatthewb I know you were sincerely trying to give her some decent advice...men just cannot comprehend how it is for the majority of women. No apology necessary
rupert · 41-45, M
Could mean that you are either unattractive or put out an unapproachable vibe or you're exceedingly good looking and therefore intimidating.
Fernie · F
No! I'm sure you are NOT ugly...although you might feel that way and if you do then your body language says it..."stay away...I'm hideous"
NorthernRoses · 26-30, F
No one asks people out randomly anymore, it's weird so don't worry about it

I've never been approached like that for dates, and I consider myself to be damn smokin tbh

Send a selfie my way and I'll give it some friendly judgement bb
coolboy86 · 36-40, M
guys dont usually just randomly ask you on a date it comes off as odd like just out of nowwhere kind weird
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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
no one approaches anyone IRL unless they're drunk. Stay online and your view will change drastically.

 
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