Why am I often told that I'm wrong?

My partner frequently makes me feel that I'm always doing something wrong. It's almost like a punishment and I start to question myself that why is nothing I do ever right? Or why is nothing I do ever right for him? Even the smallest thing, he will make a fuss over it or make me feel bad. I wonder if something is really wrong with me? I feel hurt when he treats me badly but I also feel bad for not being the person he expects me to be...

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Serenitree · F

Stop giving your consent.

The queue you waited in for so long, he knew you'd wait. Next time, if he isn't there at an agreed upon time, you wait 10 minutes, then you go home, have something to eat and go to bed.

He needs to know that you aren't willing to be his doormat. If he does something like criticizing how you carry the cutlery, put it back, sit down and say show me how you would do it.

He will either smarten up or get worse. If he gets worse, it's time to leave, because he will eventually get physically abusive.