Why am I often told that I'm wrong?

My partner frequently makes me feel that I'm always doing something wrong. It's almost like a punishment and I start to question myself that why is nothing I do ever right? Or why is nothing I do ever right for him? Even the smallest thing, he will make a fuss over it or make me feel bad. I wonder if something is really wrong with me? I feel hurt when he treats me badly but I also feel bad for not being the person he expects me to be...

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Fernie · F

Letting this guy treat you like this then thinking it's possibly YOUR fault...that there's something wrong with YOU is classic victim BS... there is something wrong with HIM and anyone who treats another person the way you describe. He is an abuser and you have low enough self esteem to ALLOW it to continue because you somehow think you deserve it...it's the same thing women say and do when they are with idiots who hit them. Grow some ovaries and get the hell away from him. Don't stay and complain...we teach people how to treat us and you have given him permission to treat you this way.