Why am I often told that I'm wrong?

My partner frequently makes me feel that I'm always doing something wrong. It's almost like a punishment and I start to question myself that why is nothing I do ever right? Or why is nothing I do ever right for him? Even the smallest thing, he will make a fuss over it or make me feel bad. I wonder if something is really wrong with me? I feel hurt when he treats me badly but I also feel bad for not being the person he expects me to be...

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UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M

It's hard to say without a full picture of the relationship, but that sounds like highly abusive behavior.

justacloudaway · F

@UndeadPrivateer Another example... it takes an hour to queue for a famous restaurant. I was there earlier than he is... I queued most of the hour and he only came for 10 mins into the queue and he started making a big fuss.

UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M

@justacloudaway He sounds at the very least intensely immature, combined with the other example you gave it does sound rather distinctly abusive.