My friend keeps going back to her lame ex

i feel like im 12 and having this problem but my friend who is even older than me has an on again off again relationship with her bf and every time i hear the same shit:

"I hate him"
"We can never be together again after this..."
"There's no way im going back"

But she does.

Dating time: 8 months. off and on like a bathroom light during that time.

I dont know how im supposed to react the next time he leaves her and she's crying about it. Am i a bad friend for being sick of the drama? ive told her to leave and she crawls back. the next time "its over" what do i do? I can't even listen to her be miserable when clearly that's what she's choosing every single time despite what everyone advised her to - leave the ass.

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Liquidplasma · 46-50, M

I know a girl who keeps getting attached to a guy who is known to cheat on woman .Unfortunatly it's a combination of chemistry,good talker maybe,possibly love, no matter how shitty the other person is.All you can do is watch hun, that's what I'm doing and the worst part I like her but can't have her.Life is fucked up

NiftyWhite · 46-50, F

@Liquidplasma Ya but i invest so much time listening and giving advice and offering options. But She just accepts whatever sweet line she hears from him and it's all good again. Like, don't waste my time!!!! That's the part i hate!

Liquidplasma · 46-50, M

@NiftyWhite I totally understand ,deep down they know as well but they chance it because they don't want to be lonely

NiftyWhite · 46-50, F

Ya but why drag other people into the drama if you know in a second you are going to go back at the first crocodile tear?

Liquidplasma · 46-50, M

@NiftyWhite I'm still asking myself that question BUT I let go because frankly my life doesn't have time in it to waste