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How to tell my crush I like him as more than friends?

I’ve been friends with this guy for about a year now but a few months ago I started developing feelings for him. He’s been really helpful and caring but I know he’s not ready for a relationship. He has told me before that he’s not looking because he wants to work on himself. That’s why I’m not even sure if I should tell him. If I did, how would a guy like a girl (friend) to tell him?
I would not tell him. Since he has made his position known, you'd be setting yourself up for awkwardness if you reveal your feelings to him.

In my experience, when a guy says he's not ready for a relationship, and wants to work on himself, etc. it means he's not interested in a relationship [i][b]with you[/b][/i].
samanthasmokes · 36-40, F
@Lupennte
... well, sounds like you are very observant and have thought this through. so, listen to your own advice ... if he's not ready ... just be a good friend.

you could drop a hint or two though ... you know like ... "hey whenever you're ready to date again, let me know.....cuz do I have the girl for you!"

Just don't tell him who the girl is. if he asks, just keep saying, "When you're ready, when you're ready."

He doesn't have to know that it's our local town hero.....YOU!
Mguinm · 51-55, F
No I wouldn't tell him. He's already made his feelings known to you that he's not ready.
Ian123 · 61-69, M
Its up to you, no one can tell you what to do because they dont know you or the situation. Go with your instinct
SW-User
I wouldn't, because he's clearly said he's not ready for it.
LookingForIt987 · 51-55, M
@SW-User I agree. Continue to be his friend, though. Because everybody needs good friends.
If it were me? Little signs to get my attention, then straight up front!
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You mean hers. I don’t do that. I can tell when people are or aren’t interested. @SW-User
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🙃 @SW-User
Only one who is genuinely interested or is a loser.
TheCoolestCat · 31-35, M
work on himself aka wanking

 
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