@wtfgirl001 Yes. I know what you mean.

@iamBen I guess part of me is holding on to the hope that things could go back to the way they were before. But you're right, if I'm just missing a feeling and not even him, I shouldn't bother contacting him.

@wtfgirl001 Best of luck to you.

@Ynotisay Yes, you're right. I'm asking for a personality change essentially, and that tends to be pretty static. So best for me to leave it alone.

@whowasthatmaskedman That is an interesting thought process. I would imagine that they would think "Oh wow, that was close. I almost lost that person. I'm not going to do that again."

Weird that it's actually the opposite.

@wtfgirl001 Of course its not universal. But maybe ask yourself why he did whatever he did if he valued you in the first place?? The thing is, we as humans operate on two levels and they arent the same. Intellectually you are on solid ground with your thinking. But the animal underneath is looking for the best mate possible (however you define that) . While in him the animal underneath is looking for every opportunity to spread his genes around. If he was operating at the intellectual level he wouldnt mess up..And if he is operating at the animal level, you have a problem.. The rest is up to you to decide..😷

@Tracos I really like the way you put this. I don't have to be the one to give him his second chance at my own expense. He can learn from it somewhere else.

Thank you.