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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Bound to happen in a society that doesn't share the same perspectives.

It's as well a reason why it's so important to be able to talk with each other about all perspectives.

Just by inference you can learn oh so much about each others perspectives.

lissah · 36-40, F
Well that happened to me before too. But you shouldn't feel stupid. He should.
EmbracingLife · 51-55, F
@lissah Oh no that must have been a shock!!
lissah · 36-40, F
@EmbracingLife i was totally shocked. But he had convinced her that i was the one that had pursued him. Which was a lie. He still kept trying to call me and contact me on social media. And his wife harassed me and threatened me. I finally had to block the both of them and change my phone number.
EmbracingLife · 51-55, F
@lissah Blimey sounds like it was a mess.
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EmbracingLife · 51-55, F
@Mamapolo2016 Thank you for your comment.
dancingtongue · 80-89, M
Don't feel stupid. As what you posted says, betrayal comes from those who stole your trust. It's on them; not you.
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
“Et tu, Brute?”. It is the ones you trust most that betray you. And then being able to trust again is a difficult thing. Don’t shut yourself out but develop your instincts. And above all don’t feel stupid, there are a lot of very cunning people out there.
EmbracingLife · 51-55, F
@SageWanderer Thank you.
Dirtyboyy67 · 56-60, M
I’m sorry to hear, people do suck, it’s not all in vain, you will be stronger and wiser!
I’m really sorry, that’s a tough one. Unfortunately people like him are oftentimes very skilled in what they do- lie, deceive and betray. Quite painful to experience but I’d still be glad I’m not that kind of person. Such a miserable way to go through life. So maybe that’s their “reward.”
EmbracingLife · 51-55, F
@OlderSometimesWiser I'm not sure I'll be able to trust again.
@EmbracingLife Guess that remains to be seen, but if so I’d imagine it will be a slow, measured process. Hopefully if nothing else this experience will leave you much more aware and better equipped/educated to make a decision. And the most important thing will be trusting yourself.
EmbracingLife · 51-55, F
@OlderSometimesWiser I always try and "learn" a lesson from everything especially negative that happens to me, then it becomes a positive. Just feeling a bit sorry for myself at the moment.
Uncfred · 70-79, M
I hope you can recover from such a cheating B******. Some guys don't know how lucky they are and life can be a jungle, but you are still young enough to rebuild and move on to better things.
Wishing you the best.
EmbracingLife · 51-55, F
@Uncfred Thank you. I don't feel young anymore.
Uncfred · 70-79, M
@EmbracingLife Sad if he could have thar effect, but you are stronger than you think. Look forward, there is a lot of living left, and you deserve better.
Selah ·
Omg?? That's so evil
EmbracingLife · 51-55, F
@Selah I guess it is yes.
nevergiveup · 61-69, M
It hurts for a long time and trusting someone new is always hard.
TexChik · F
You were scammed by , well, a criminal mind. No normal person does that to someone else, certainly not someone they claimed to love. Are you the only one he has done that to?

Did you give him money or buy things together?
TexChik · F
@EmbracingLife I am so sorry for the pain you are dealing with.
EmbracingLife · 51-55, F
@TexChik Thank you I'm hoping it will soon ease.
TexChik · F
@EmbracingLife Give it time.
Did you never go to his house? That alone would be suspicious.
@EmbracingLife You never even considered the possibility - that just means you're a good person. Good people never think about potential malice coming from others because they would never do something like that themselves.

You could always check to see if it was an airbnb if you need to.
EmbracingLife · 51-55, F
@Magicianzini To be honest I've found out so much stuff that's upset me I really don't need another. Would just make me feel even more stupid!!
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Munumbis · 46-50, M
Sad that such exists.
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