My entire adopted family betrayed me and kept me from ever knowing I was adopted and kept it a family secret from me Should I abandon them?

Not in a heartbeat!

People who adopt are unselfish heroes and nothing less.

They have spent hundreds of thousands of dollars on you and thousands of hours of time.

Not sure how you could even think of such a thing.

Many people are confused when it comes to the issue you are raising and are unsure of the best way to handle it for the psychological welfare of the child. It is a very gray area.

I would never condemn anyone who went either way on that one.

How about devoting your life to helping others the way they did with you? Your mind and thinking would be in a far better place ...just saying

That’s not uncommon. They probably did what they thought was best at the time.

Have you joined up to ancestry.com?

Did you fel loved and well taken care of

Ask them why they kept it from you ... human nature kicks in and an adopted person, if they know they've been adopted have a feeling that they don't belong with that family, your families rationale in keeping it from you was to make you feel that you DO belong

No they are your family even though they adopted u

no, did they bring you up pay for everything, look after you, yes, then why abandon them

How did you find out?

Give them a break.

yes