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midnightrose · F
My marriage could and has survived cheating. Staying married was a choice. Forgiveness is more difficult but it is necessary to move forward. Trust is another factor. It has to be rebuilt. I wouldn't have stayed if he had continued cheating. So the last question really depends on the person who cheated and their remorse. Not all cheaters are alike. Regardless of what you do, the relationship is forever changed. You can't go back and have what was broken. You have to make something new.
Baremine · 70-79, C
@midnightrose I so agree with you. As I said in my comments.