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Who are the only people in your life that can make you feel betrayed?

Jayciedubb · 56-60, M
They're no longer in my life but were once the center of my attention. They've all been ex gfs who couldn't handle their freedom and let other men creep in between us, causing them to act suspicious, causing me to notice and try to bring it out into the light, causing them to lie, causing me to get angry, causing them to go to their "friend" for "emotional support." Friend claims to be representing me but really trying to get them to really let out their frustration so when they really unload, he can double back and use that info to keep her on his side. The last one actually shared screenshots of our arguments with the creep. ..arguments that were started by her involvement with him, a fact that he overlooks when he convinced her that i was toxic. Its almost funny. 3 in a row, same pattern.

Im one of those sigma types who needs some alone time. Its that alone time that causes them to innocently drift away and let another man in. As soon as they decide to keep it a secret, thats when their relationship becomes tighter than ours and I'm out
Probably most would have to say the biggest betrayal is when your partner does you. It is likely true with any major love in your life breaks your trust. I had one of those best friend since our teenage days that was watching out for my wife when I was working away. No way she would ever do anything or him, especially him, my brother thru all those years. Oh yea, he figured he did me a favor by keeping her satisfied so somone else wouldn't entice her away from me. POS..... A favor.
So that was probably 30 plus years ago and tho I honestly let it die as far as my wife goes but my good buddy knows not to get within range of me.
Yes, I know how friends can " help her "
They know what they're doing, they've done it before. It's only way they can get close to women, hit them when they are the most vulnerable.
Its not a guy thing tho. I have watched friends go the other way where he finds someone to listen to his marriage ups and downs. It ends up the same way

 
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