How many chances do you give someone until you've had enough of their games?

[b][c=A69800]I usually well used to give a few chances and maybe if they do break my trust I will be like I have not forgiving you and will NEVER forget what you said or done to make me feel hurt, betrayed and that you (the person) broke my trust.


I think I am going to give people less chances to do such things nowadays.




Say if someone in real life suddenly blocks me after a while or years of me thinking we are "friends" and I happen to notice..

its like wtf, ok you wanna be like that. So I say something if not blocked somewhere else. Friendship is done as they might not have felt we are really friends and I think fine bye bye its their loss not mine.




Family is different though:
But it really depends on who it is as family is harder to stop talking to even though in some families it is not always smooth sailing 🤷🏼‍♀️

u just gotta accept not always getting along with family and maybe give them space or whatever and hopefully they keep in touch, reply and more. [/c][/b]


[b]Hmmm when people play games..what like with ur feelings. Or heart and such things? [/b]

I want Yorkshire Puddings now.

Give the benefit of the doubt once after the first game then it is on you really. You will show you are a mug and they will carry on.
People playing games are really not worth it.

Depends on what they did.

Not gonna lie there has been a whole lotta shame in my forgiveness game

One person 23 chances and another 15🥺

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Im very patient. I'll give them years if I feel Im getting anything out of it.

If I love the person, just 1 chance. If don’t love the person, 2+ fake chances just to get revenge.

Depends

On who they are and what they have done

I don't give chances anymore, you play your own game, you fall if it's game over.

2x after thats its over i don't have time for toxic games

One chance unless food is an apology then we can negotiate.

What are your long term goals in the relationship?

Way too many, I’m not doing that anymore.

asking myself this question right now tbh xD

Depends on the games

I gave too many ...I'm done now

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