Would you tell someone they are being cheated on? My bf and I are half broken up and half...

Mind your business and move on. Things could backfire on you and this could really get ugly and then you'll get blamed for a breakup. Stay out of it. She'll find out sooner or later. I actually think she should know and that is very troubling. She should know but I don't think you're the person to tell her. And the worst thing you could do, is to confront him! You might find yourself in a very scary position. Do not risk it.

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

It can go ugly if you get involved in their relationship. Best to cut thing with your boyfriend and move on.

itsok · 31-35, F

I’ve been in a situation where I had to decide if I was going to tell someone they were being cheated on. When I asked for advice every guy I asked said stay out of it, and every girl I asked said tell.

I would want to know.

SW-User

I one time caught my besties boyfriend at the store holding another girls hand and I went and told her about it .. it didn’t go over too well, she didn’t believe and thought I was trying to get with him.. we stopped talking after that and even when she did find out he was messing around with her. She still never talked to me after that.. now if I see something I just keep it to myself.. prolly why I don’t have that many friends now either lol

SW-User

If he's cheating on you and you're well aware there's no future together, why are you even living with him in the first place, especially when you're not married?
If something's wrong b/w his brother and wife, his wife would suspect too. Find stability in your own life first. Generally both parties play a role when relationship falters and dies ultimately.

WhateverWorks · 36-40

I would want to know, but if you don’t have hard evidence then unfortunately all you have is finger-pointing when you’re already in a vulnerable situation. Even if she believes you there will definitely be backlash from the brothers.

All I can say is I would get off that sinking ship as soon as humanly possible.

leeloh · F

No. Set him up so she can find out on herself. Maybe "go get your nails done" that day with her, but actually you already followed him to see where's he's cheating , and you tell her the technician is right there and she catches them.

Or just tell her what you've heard

Nanori · F

Idk but if u wanna directly tell her you'd better have some evidence otherwise he might easily accuse of lying and you'll end up being the bad guy here.

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

I'd mind my own business. I'd feel bad for the people & hope they figure things out, but I've never been a snitch so 😅 I'd steer clear. Too many problems

pride49 · 31-35, M

I genuinely don't care, and they could solve it by simply being a swinger. I delete drama from my mind, so I don't have to get involved in bullshit

in10RjFox · M

To [b]MYOB[/b] is the best. Have Pity for those married .. they need to find such little alleys to escape time to time .. and is done as a thrill ..

ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M

Probably not. Not really my business, and for all I know they might already know and not care or just want to ignore it.

SW-User

I believe in honesty with people I care about, even if it’s a painful truth. I would always tell them

Ozuye502 · 36-40, M

Lets ask this question how close are you with the individual you are providing this information to?

NotSureAboutMyUserName · 31-35, M

If you don't have solid evidence don't pursue this.

Just break up with the guy and move on.

Ingwe · F

No, I would tell the cheater to tell them or else I would.

SW-User

They probably wont believe you but I'd tell anyways

nonsensiclesnail · F

tell her. she deserves to know.

Tres13 · 51-55, M

No snitching

KentuckyWildcats · M

MYOB