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Sneaky bf emotionally cheating

My bf started emotionally cheating on me with a girl on social media. He doesn’t know that I know but I have proof. I’ve heard people say you should just trust him, he needs privacy you should give it to him, don’t go thru his phone it’s not right and can damage your relationship. But, why does he get privacy when all he does with his privacy is use it in In appropriate ways. Once he started talking to this girl he changed his passwords too but I got to see enough before he changed it to call it cheating. He may not meet up with her in person I’m not too sure about that, but he definitely flirts with her and doesn’t mention me and hides it from me by changing his passwords so I personally consider that being disloyal. Please tell me what side your on.
hellsbella · 46-50, F
I would walk away and enjoy being free until a more deserving man comes along. You do not have to have a man in your life at all however. Go and be happy by yourself before you get into your next relationship so you have the knowledge that is is okay to be alone and will no longer accept people who try to devalue you.
Fifidog · 26-30, F
I was thinking that too. Are all men sneaky like that or are there loyal good men out there @hellsbella
Sneaky, indeed! You are right on!! Where there's no trust there's no relationship. Time to move on! He is cheating emotionally. Same thing, in my book. Walk away and don't look back. This person doesn't deserve you and don't let him sweet talk his way back. If you had not known he would have continued.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Is this the same man who lives an hour away that you want to get to know better, that you wrote about a few days ago? Or is this the boyfriend you said you didn't like and wanted to breakup with anyway?
Fifidog · 26-30, F
@DunningKruger this is the one I wanted to break up with anyway 😂
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@Fifidog So, it's OK for you to communicate with other men, but not OK for him to do so with other women?
Fifidog · 26-30, F
He did it first. It’s not something I would do but if he’s gonna do it I’ll show him how it feels. @DunningKruger
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Emotional affairs are as damaging as physical ones!
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
And can not only ask your forgiveness, but demonstrate you’re number one in his world!
Fifidog · 26-30, F
@Quimliqer what if he doesn’t agree and calls me insecure?

how would you demonstrate that?
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
@Fifidog what you’re experiencing is not insecurity, it’s self preservation!!
Fifidog · 26-30, F
@Wallflow3r what do you think about giving someone private with their phone when you know their cheating? Should I have looked or not. I got the answer I needed
Reflection2 · 41-45, M
...... you should trust him.........I would never agree with that statement and I would ask to never trust me saying that. Honest Justifications and honest admission is the only way to rebuild the trust.
Fifidog · 26-30, F
@Reflection2 this is the third time within about a year and a half that this has happened and he says he’ll stop but he just learns to hide it better. what do you think about giving someone private with their phone when you know their cheating? Should I have looked or not. I got the answer I needed by doing so. And why does he always tell me he loves me? Does he really or is he lying
dale74 · M
Well you have two choices stay or go plenty of goof men out there
Fifidog · 26-30, F
@dale74 are they all cheaters who hide things or are there good loyal men out there
dale74 · M
@Fifidog there are many good loyal men. I've never cheated on a woman But I have been cheated on. But I still believe there are good women out there.
NinaTina · 26-30, F
@dale74 you correct goof men 🤭
Anielka · F
Wow i can't even begin to understand the shit young people base their relationship on these days.
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
Oh, just dump him if that's the way you feel. You'll both be happier.
Fifidog · 26-30, F
@ChipmunkErnie your probably right
Fairydust · F
🚩 just not worth the long term pain.
Fifidog · 26-30, F
@Fairydust what do you think about giving someone private with their phone when you know their cheating? Should I have looked or not. I got the answer I needed by doing so. And why does he always tell me he loves me? Does he really or is he lying
SW-User
* sniffs* smells like troll
Fifidog · 26-30, F
Nope this is real and I need advice lol @SW-User
Emotional cheating is still cheating.
justanothername · 51-55, M
Forget the emotional shit. Find a new boyfriend.
It is cheating. Simple
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Fifidog · 26-30, F
What does that mean lol @Ferise1
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