Bf hiding cheating with passcode

My bf changed him passcode cause he’s cheating I found out and I know this is why he changed his passcode because it’s been the same for the last 8 years. He doesn’t know that I know he changed it. Should I bring it up, let it slide, mention something?

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scrood · 31-35

Well low trust people use codes and locks and spy on each other

Fifidog · 26-30, F

What do you mean? He can’t be trusted? @scrood

scrood · 31-35

@Fifidog In a high trust society or relationship everything is open but expectation of privacy is through responsibility -- has he apologized for cheating and do you have proof or do you plan to confront him?? Either way he doesn't trust YOU or he would let you on without a passcode

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@scrood he may not trust me but I also don’t trust him. He is cheating I have proof and I have not yet confronted him. I don’t know what to say. I’m speechless

scrood · 31-35

@Fifidog Yes you need to resolve this -- and it is better to know truthfully he is a cheater and if you want to continue is your choice but there may be more faithful options out there

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@scrood I want someone faithful and loyal