Notes from a "stalker"

Those of you who are sexting married people for a little NSA "fun" should know this site is a wealth of information once the wayward spouse has been caught. Trust me, I wish I could let it go, but the anger and humiliation just continues to consume me, months after discovery. I spend most of my time praying to die, since divorce and other options would destroy my kids' lives.

So men, get out of your basement and spend time with your families and maybe your "sexless" marriage will improve. Get off your keyboard and then you can use both hands. "Ladies" (and I use that term loosely, like you), did you ever consider that the wife he has been lying to and gaslighting for years doesn't feel like being used as a prop at 4 am when he finally comes to bed from sexting with "ladies" like yourself?

So, for all of you who think these are victimless dalliances and "technically" not cheating, go ask your spouse if it is ok that you have unilaterally decided you are in an open marriage and if he/she is cool with you setting up some dating profiles in the Internet's sleaziest swamps. No? Then you are a liar and a cheater.

I won't embarrass.myself further by naming names, but they know who they are, and though they have tried to delete their profiles, all their info is still there...