Do abuser know they are being abusive?

As in is it a deliberate act to be emotionally abusive or is it just utterly thoughtlessness?

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Houdini · 56-60, M

Yes they do my daughter was married to a abuser. And he made everything that went wrong her fault. When he moved on and lived with his new woman he did exactly the same with her. So yes I believe that they know what they are doing he is no longer around anymore he was found face down in a ditch.