EVERYBODY is capable of being abusive. It takes two. So please stop the "it's all his/her fault" victim drama BS.

So, you figure a two year old whose father tossed him to the alligators "asked for it"? Or an eight year old who was considered attractive by a forty year old and died from his "affection"? Or a mother who brutalized her children was only "trying to raise them right"?

This post plunges jackassery to a new low.

I disagree. We have all been brainwashed with " it takes 2 to tango".

No clearly there are cases of pure abuse and victims.

Ask any kid who has been sodomised by his father for years since infancy for ex. not quoting an experience of mine by the way.

I'm used to taking the blame. It's the philosophy of my parents' generation and how kids were raised. My parents always said that if someone does something bad to you, you must deserve it in some way. Even if you can't think of anything you've done... you must be an evil person on the inside to have bad things happen to you. Bad things only happen to bad people. And our religion reinforced this.

If you are being sincere, then I consider you to be one of the most disgusting people here.

On the other hand, if you are trolling, then you are in very bad taste, as a post like this can trigger users who have really been victims of abuse.

There are some young women I know who were abused by their father. Reading this literally has me shaking in outrage .

I’ll give you that in an abusive relationship there’s a lot of toxicity that could be happening on both sides, but unhealthy attitudes and behaviors (ex: clinginess, bickering, shitty communication) is not interchangeable with ‘abusive’. ‘Abuse’ is intentionally causing damage. just because one person is being abusive definitely doesn’t mean that both people are being abusive like some dysfunctional tango.

Everyone may be capable of being abusive, but surely everyone does not choose to be.

Let's not victim blame

If only she would listen! 🙄

Obviously