Anxious
Only logged in members can reply and interact with the post.
Join SimilarWorlds for FREE 禄

My boyfriend is being an ass.

I want out of this relationship 馃挬
DownTheStreet51-55, M
Dump him and date his most interesting friend
emeryF
I鈥檓 surprised that he even has friends. He鈥檚 a douche @DownTheStreet
DownTheStreet51-55, M
@emery yeah time to move on dear
TrashCatM
@DownTheStreet or his dad (or mom) 馃槀
Harriet0341-45, F
Every time he pisses you off, remove a letter from his name on your phone.
When his name has gone, you're all done.

HANGMAN THAT HOE!
Harmonium192351-55, M
@Harriet03 Brilliant.
BeefySenpieM
Unless you鈥檙e financial dependent or have kids together, then it鈥檚 your poor choice to stay
Having dated someone who was coming from an abusive relationship I learned this from her experience. No matter how you rationalise things, you need to get out sooner than later. And.... the part that is vital, seek a therapist to deal with the trauma. She has PTSD to some degree and after she could not handle normal with me went into another relationship which was abusive. So best to move on and be good to yourself so you do not repeat that pattern.
Best of luck
Richard65M
Everything you say tells me you don't want out of this relationship either. He's controlling you and you're allowing it. Things will only get worse because he can see you're willing to believe his bullshit. Get out asap, he's trouble.
Youll leave when youre ready. Meanwhile, cheat.
SW-User
Then leave if you're not happy
Life is too short
popmol22-25, M
than say, "let's break up"
Renkon36-40, M
When you say " want out of the relationship" It indicates like there is some difficulty for you to get out. There is nothing official about it. So just tell me it's over and get with your life.

What's holding you back?
TrashCatM
Then get out.
I left a seriously abusive relationship 15 years ago. It was brutal at first, but I have never been happier
TeslinM
If you are not happy, then take care of the issue.
I know sometimes it is easier said than done.
scooogy31-35, MVIP
I guess he only has a relationship with panties then 馃し
Echambers10126-30, M
What happened?
emeryF
@Echambers101 he鈥檚 being mentally and physically abusive to me. it sounds bad but it isn鈥檛 like extreme.. either way it鈥檚 still fucked up
Echambers10126-30, M
@emery i know its not easy but try to leave him
Diotrephes70-79, M
@emery It's best and much safer to avoid getting into an argument with him. Tell him that you want him to be happy and that you know you will never be able to make him happy and give him the love that he desires and needs. So, tell him in a soothing voice that you want to set him free so that he won't be wasting his time, energy, money and love on you beause you will never be able to reciprocate. If he presses you, tell him a story about what a lousy childhood you had and how you never learned how to have any loving relationships. And then try to get him to focus on his opportunity to date new women who will be very eager to make him happy in o many way that you simply can't.
deadgerbil22-25
Leave him and don't look back
emeryF
If only it was that easy@deadgerbil
SpoiledbratF
Mine is sleeping.
SW-User
@Spoiledbrat 馃
FreestyleArt31-35, M
Does he smell and taste like an Ass?
Emarky31-35, M
What happened to cause the breakup?
This comment is hidden. Show Comment
emeryF
@geoam1 I鈥檝e tried countless times but he still begs me to stay saying he鈥檒l change.. but it鈥檚 whatever I guess.
This comment is hidden. Show Comment
Josh1454M
Leave then.
empanadas31-35, M
Marry me I need a visa
This comment is hidden. Show Comment

 
Post Comment