DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
Dump him and date his most interesting friend
emery · F
I’m surprised that he even has friends. He’s a douche @DownTheStreet
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
@emery yeah time to move on dear
TrashCat · M
@DownTheStreet or his dad (or mom) 😂
Having dated someone who was coming from an abusive relationship I learned this from her experience. No matter how you rationalise things, you need to get out sooner than later. And.... the part that is vital, seek a therapist to deal with the trauma. She has PTSD to some degree and after she could not handle normal with me went into another relationship which was abusive. So best to move on and be good to yourself so you do not repeat that pattern.
Best of luck
Best of luck
BeefySenpie · M
Unless you’re financial dependent or have kids together, then it’s your poor choice to stay
Renkon · 41-45, M
When you say " want out of the relationship" It indicates like there is some difficulty for you to get out. There is nothing official about it. So just tell me it's over and get with your life.
What's holding you back?
What's holding you back?

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Then leave if you're not happy
Life is too short
Life is too short
Teslin · M
If you are not happy, then take care of the issue.
I know sometimes it is easier said than done.
I know sometimes it is easier said than done.
popmol · 26-30, M
than say, "let's break up"
Echambers101 · 26-30, M
What happened?
emery · F
@Echambers101 he’s being mentally and physically abusive to me. it sounds bad but it isn’t like extreme.. either way it’s still fucked up
Echambers101 · 26-30, M
@emery i know its not easy but try to leave him
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@emery It's best and much safer to avoid getting into an argument with him. Tell him that you want him to be happy and that you know you will never be able to make him happy and give him the love that he desires and needs. So, tell him in a soothing voice that you want to set him free so that he won't be wasting his time, energy, money and love on you beause you will never be able to reciprocate. If he presses you, tell him a story about what a lousy childhood you had and how you never learned how to have any loving relationships. And then try to get him to focus on his opportunity to date new women who will be very eager to make him happy in o many way that you simply can't.
TrashCat · M
Then get out.
I left a seriously abusive relationship 15 years ago. It was brutal at first, but I have never been happier
I left a seriously abusive relationship 15 years ago. It was brutal at first, but I have never been happier

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What happened to cause the breakup?
Spoiledbrat · F
Mine is sleeping.

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@Spoiledbrat 🤔
Selah ·
Youll leave when youre ready. Meanwhile, cheat.
Josh1454 · M
Leave then.
deadgerbil · 26-30, M
Leave him and don't look back
emery · F
If only it was that easy@deadgerbil
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Harriet03 · 41-45, F
Every time he pisses you off, remove a letter from his name on your phone.
When his name has gone, you're all done.
HANGMAN THAT HOE!
When his name has gone, you're all done.
HANGMAN THAT HOE!
Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
@Harriet03 Brilliant.
Richard65 · M
Everything you say tells me you don't want out of this relationship either. He's controlling you and you're allowing it. Things will only get worse because he can see you're willing to believe his bullshit. Get out asap, he's trouble.
FreestyleArt · 36-40, M
Does he smell and taste like an Ass?
empanadas · 31-35, M
Marry me I need a visa
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