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Having dated someone who was coming from an abusive relationship I learned this from her experience. No matter how you rationalise things, you need to get out sooner than later. And.... the part that is vital, seek a therapist to deal with the trauma. She has PTSD to some degree and after she could not handle normal with me went into another relationship which was abusive. So best to move on and be good to yourself so you do not repeat that pattern.
Best of luck
Best of luck