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Tofulilly I think we come from two completely different planets. You're over there weighing up whether FUBU with an ex is a good idea, while I come from a world where we didn't really have premarital sex (and it's not an age gap thing, I still know loads of people your age here who still have the same 'values'.
The kind that is still trying to convince themselves that holding hands for too long is a 'slippery slope'!
And now you have an actual acronym for sleeping with someone you're supposedly not emotionally involved with. FUBU. Four letters to make something that could potentially turn your entire emotional life upside down sound like a casual Tuesday afternoon... 😂
But jokes aside, I'm genuinely curious about something. When you've been with someone for years, how do you draw that line between wanting their body and wanting them? Surely there's a danger that familiarity feels like intimacy, and intimacy starts masquerading as love again?
So tell me this... is FUBU with an ex really about enjoying the comfort of someone who already knows all your buttons to push, or is it sometimes a way of keeping a door open that neither person is quite brave enough to walk through?
And be careful how you answer that last bit... I'm an inquisitive man, and I have a feeling your answer might tell me more about you than you're intending to reveal 😉
