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Do you still believe in marriage?! Does anyone actually find their soulmate?

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Yes I do. I’m actually engaged rn
Lostpoet · M
@AnonymousJSS I heard 😊Im happy for the both of you.
@Lostpoet Thank you!
I believe in it.
lissah · 36-40, F
My parents had a good marriage. I never did.
Lostpoet · M
@lissah Maybe in the future you will have one.
lissah · 36-40, F
@Lostpoet maybe
Quimliqer · 70-79, MVIP
Matrimony is still a desired status as they have met the one person who makes them whole!
Cassieee · 31-35, F
Yes, I’m married to my soulmate so 🥹
GoFish ·
i believe in it and some do
Lostpoet · M
@GoFish I used to but now not so much. Or maybe I’m just not marriage material.
GoFish ·
@Lostpoet marriage is a responsibility..
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Yep. About to do my second go around.
@uncalled4 I hope it's a wonderful marriage for you and your soon-wife-to-be.
val70 · 56-60
Why marry your soulmate?
val70 · 56-60
@Lostpoet You're conditioned for it, yes. But do you really think that marriage will do anything beneficial for the friendship?
Lostpoet · M
@val70 Is marriage a friendship or something more.
val70 · 56-60
@Lostpoet It's something else. In the sense that it's more. More of everything. That's why it can slowly disintegrate. Marriage shouldn't be taken that lightly. It's a commitment and not everyone suits it. As for soulmates, well, I think that I trust the concept of marriage more. I don't claim that it doesn't exist but try it out in the battering of what life throws at you. No, it's not the same.
I am in for life and so far 46 years and counting



No chance of parole, denied by the parole board aka wife
GoFish ·
@SirNedKelly my folks too got married in 1980
BrandNewMan · 61-69, M

With the right person .. yeah

Soulmates are like 🫈 and 🦄 .. we all want to believe .. but ..

😎😁
AdmiralPrune · 46-50, M
Yes, and I’m married to her. And in just under an hour I need to take the two mini versions of her we made to school.
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Lostpoet · M
@BuzzedLightyear I bet she’s hot though. Everyone i know it seems like marriage always ends eventually.
@BuzzedLightyear Stop bragging, I am in for life and so far 46 years and counting
I'm still married so... but I don't think I'd do it again
OutoftheGloom · 46-50, F
Yes I definitely believe in marriage. I was married for 18 years to the most wonderfully amazing man and a brilliant dad. He was my best friend and my soft place in a hard world. I miss him every single day. I think there's someone out there for everyone. ❤
I do and I have.
FreestyleArt · 36-40, M
I don't believe in marriage since it's kind of a scam to the corporate world. I do believe in companions though.
I used to believe in marriage but after being married for so many years ,I don’t agree anymore in this institution.
I do believe in soulmate stuff but it’s not necessary that they’re going to be married to us.
Lostpoet · M
@Caleidoscope Shouldn’t you only marry someone that you connect with?
@Lostpoet Not all connections are soulmate connections.And ppl change over the years.We do too .Things that impressed us before might not do after .
Lostpoet · M
@Caleidoscope True, People change.
MellyMel22 · F
I believe it shouldn’t be with just anyone or to just be married.
Lostpoet · M
@MellyMel22 Agreed
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
Marriage has very little benefit anymore. I won't be doing it again.

As for soulmate, i think there are several different types of soulmates that are in your life. A soulmate is just a person you vibe with on a deeper level, which can be platonic, business, romantic, etc. Why limit it to just one? Fill your whole life with them!
BuzzedLightyear · 61-69, M
I was just wondering about you.
BuzzedLightyear · 61-69, M
@Lostpoet I just notice when you're not around. You matter to me.
Lostpoet · M
@BuzzedLightyear You matter to me too.
Lostpoet · M
@BuzzedLightyear I just always assume you are out there kicking ass and playing music.
eMortal · M
Yes. It's good if you don't crave variety.
Daisy57 · 56-60, F
Loaded question.It would take a mini novel to cover my response. Maybe I will post it somewhere someday.
Lostpoet · M
@Daisy57 just let me know when you do and leave a link.
I used to but I’ve reached a point in my life where finding a partner is no longer a priority. I am content with being alone for the rest of my life if that means not being betrayed and manipulated for personal gain
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FrozenWasteland · 61-69, M
I don't like the "soulmate" concept. It kind of suggests that once one finds the her/him they were pre-destined for, their struggles are over. Then when things inevitably get tough (humans are messy creatures) they just go "Oh well, guess she/he wasn't my *real* soulmate after all." and continue their search the the "true" one.

 
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