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helenS · 36-40, F
@Mmiker Thank you, and I sure hope you agree? 🌷
Mmiker · 46-50, M
@helenS absolutely. I read a lot of your responses. I agree with most. Nonetheless all clever responses.
helenS · 36-40, F
@Mmiker We talked about "chauvinistic" sexual fantasies a while ago.

Get me a sammich and I’ll tell you? 🤔
GoFish ·
you like the type A with attitude type guys
GoFish ·
@thevixen my husband is the same to a degree 😅 smh ugh
thevixen · 36-40, F
@GoFish Lucky you
GoFish ·
@thevixen lol thanks .. luckily he's not a loud snorer just bossy when he's awake
Anime1 · 31-35, M
Find someone who wants to have a serious relationship with you
Amber17 · 18-21, F
Because they are strong and can take care of us and have no issue putting us in our place when we get out of line
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
@Amber17 and I assume you love that about men ?
thevixen · 36-40, F
@Midlifemale I take it as law of nature
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
@thevixen Ok...a nice way to accept that about some men. So you like when they take charge and discipline you when needed ?
Josh1454 · M
It is quite common for women and men to date people with similar traits. If you notice this then you can start trying to see this in advance and change the type of person you date.
alongalone · M
Very normal you're fine
Bigdenz · 46-50, M
So you like free use?
Subsumedpat · 41-45, M
Psychology, try a submissive one.
Lostlostlost · 56-60, M
Coz that's what you want /like/attract
Rissareborn · 22-25, F
Happens to everyone! At least sometimes
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
Find a better man..
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
Both...Make yourself a short list of the traits you want in the man you want to go through life with, including child raising, and all the ups and downs.. I am prepared to bet the guys you keep meeting up with hardly tick a single box on that list. If they did, you wouldnt find them interesting..😷
Northwest · M
That's a good question for your therapist.
Nunki · 31-35, F
Is it love or attraction?
There is a big difference between the two.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
I don't think it's normal for a man to put a woman down or to act like he's superior.
Perhaps you like the man to take the lead in the relationship ?
You still could probably have that without having them be chauvinistic.
People -men and women should both feel respected.
Everyone should be able to express their own ideas.
Akimbo75 · 46-50, F
It is definitely good to think about and be aware of how you might be attracting them, but I might also argue that there are just so many of those kinds of men out there, ones that don't see women as actual people, and they know how to hide it decently well, until they don't. It's so much more prevalent than I ever realized.
Katie01 · F
Cos they actually end up treating us the best. I don't want a man who is always nice and respectful. I already have one pussy, I don't need another
Horace · M
Because you probably don't watch a lot of TV.
turtle777rescuer · 36-40, M
Your female hormones making you magnetically attracted to what testosrerone makes guys do... primal urges, human nature
thevixen · 36-40, F
turtle777rescuer · 36-40, M
@thevixen glad there is still some logical ppl in the world
Slavem · 70-79, M
Because you’re a young girl and get taken advantage of. Grow up and get help from mature ladies that know how to date.
ViciDraco · 41-45, M
It's probably because they tend to portray a lot of confidence
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
I think this is a question to ask a therapist. That being said in my unprofessional opinion,yes there is something wrong with you and yes it is normal for people to be attracted to what they know will hurt them.
Softandsweet2 · 36-40, F
I would think you’re a bit submissive.
Mmiker · 46-50, M
@Softandsweet2 actually a very clever response. That must be an inner pull.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Something wrong with ya
thevixen · 36-40, F
@MrBrownstone tell me
sarahcupcake · 36-40, F
I'm not being unkind but is it possible you are just doing the same thing again and again and expecting a different outcome?
It's what you're drawn to because of childhood traumas ... the people we are usually drawn to present familiar patterns and behaviors we see in our parents/ caregivers ...familiarity isn't always good ...especially if it's toxic in nature
thevixen · 36-40, F
@cherny you have a point.
Krazykatie · 31-35, F
Yeah there probably is something wrong with you but I won't judge because I am just as fucked up or even worse. I only want men...or women.... who will use and abuse me.
thevixen · 36-40, F
@Krazykatie Nothing wrong with that. It's very feminine to have such a want
Slavem · 70-79, M
People have a tendency of dating people just like their parents subconsciously they’re looking for the same traits.
Maybe it's something to do with the

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@Prince0217 Or it could be imprinting from a father or other significant male. For better or worse, many people take partners with traits similar to a parent. And then they use parenting styles similar to how they were raised. It's hard to break out of these patterns, but it can be done.

 
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