I'm planning to break up

For context, i just think we are not at the same page. We're both 30's. Last time we talked about boundaries. And I raised that I don't like the way he likes and rarely comments on other girl's (almost naked) posts. And he's always convincing me to lose weight. I mean, losing weight is good. But it feels fishy when he's doing that. I told him tho that I don't like to tell him what to do but I don't like him to pressure me that way. So he PROMISED he will never do it again.

But just now, he's been liking almost nood pics again. Multiple times. Idk what to do anymore. I'm not good at confrontation because I just usually, quietly, walk away. I've been in a relationship like this before and the ending isn't good.

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SabOrsetti · 31-35, F

He wants to fuck Rachel. As they did 4 days ago!😂😂😂
I saw him smelling her pussy!

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

If he's doing those sorts of things without your involvement he probably isn't really commited to you in the way you'd like. How do you personally feel about seeing (either pics or irl) other women in a nude or semi-nude situation? Note I don't know what your sexual preferences are.

Does he ever mention things about you that he doesn't like in an open-for-honest-discussion type of way that's giving both of you a chance to talk about what you both like and don't like about each other? Does he compliment you positively and freely without needing any suggestive prompting?

If you feel the dislikes are outweighing the likes it might be time to think about moving on. Are you married? Do you have any children together? If not, there's probably less hassle in arranging to split up.

JustBeing · 26-30, F

@zonavar68 we're not married and we don't have kids. I was calm when I talked with him earlier this morning. He's quite defensive at first but then I showed him what I was talking about, then he explained that he was just caught in the moment. I did not talk further and he respects my decision since we we're very clear last time.

SilentObZerver · 26-30, M

Have you asked him why he keeps liking pics of other ladies

JustBeing · 26-30, F

@SilentObZerver yes

SilentObZerver · 26-30, M

@JustBeing and his response was?

JustBeing · 26-30, F

@SilentObZerver it's just like, it's not like he's having sx

romell · 51-55, M

Are those women known to him

JustBeing · 26-30, F

@romell some, yes. Mostly, no

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MrVintage71 · 51-55, M

Sounds like you're doing the right thing, breaking up ASAP,will benefit your mental health massively ,and self esteem. He's not good enough for you

GeminiRain · M

Sounds to me like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. If he can't be supportive you should reevaluate the relationship. It's not fair to you to go on this way

Anime1 · 31-35, M

No one cares

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