What hurts the most in relationship?

My wife says anal.

Her left hook 😳

Trying to love someone who has issues. You want to stick by them while they grow but they hurt you.

Child birth

For me it was when he put boiling water on me on purpose

Lies and deceit love but with conditions. Those are some of my red flags

Getting kicked in the nuts on your birthday.

Why should anything hurt in a relationship?

Past transgressions.

Deception

Being used then tossed aside

Growing apart, not wanting the same things, deceit

Blame and anger

rejection disregard disrespect ghosting physical attacks false gossip lies 😒

When she dies😓