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Hubby leaving

So hubby is deploying for a year. Well last night he was trying to convince me to get a boyfriend. We've always been open just haven't acted on it because we where both content (married 12 years). However now he's really trying convince me to get one while he's gone. I'm kind of like is it worth the headache to find a partner and then worry about is my hubby gonna get along with him, is he gonna approve, is it going to just be during deployment and if so is there even a point.
secretwifethoughts
31-35, F
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Rockyy01 · 51-55, M
Get a friend with benefits
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BridgeOvertroubledWaters · 61-69, M
Good luck
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HumanEarth · F
I couldn't do it, I'm the super loyal type. I'm the death to us part kind
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eMortal · M
You're lucky
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lissah · 36-40, F
No i wouldnt do that. I mean cant you survive with sex toys for a year.
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1490wayb · 56-60, M
will he hook up with someone also?? probably...do you care??
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TexChik · F
Get a sybian instead
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MoveAlong · 70-79, M
You might consider looking for a fk buddy instead of a boy friend. Keep it safe though.
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Royricky09 ·
Wtffff kinda marriage is this? Shame on your so called openness.
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DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Maybe not a boyfriend, just a fuck buddy.
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laurieluvsit · 31-35, F
I would just find a solid reliable guy or girl to hook-up with for occasional fun and sex.

The problems come when an emotional attachment develops with a male so unless you and your husband are able to deal with multiple emotional attachments, that would be a deal killer.

Another female might be the best choice as then even if an emotional attachment develops that is no different then any other you might have with a close girlfriend.

Even if you are straight, I think you should seriously consider that :)

Good luck!

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Northerner · 70-79, M
This may seem exciting to some but if they had to make a decision on the rest of their lives,what would they do. you may find someone that would like a sex and no romance relationship.
Whatever you do hubby is always going to be second best.
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justbob · 61-69, M
Shame on him for suggesting it. Shame on you for thinking about it. Doesn't your marriage mean anything to you?

I hope he is not saying it to feel less bad about cheating on you.
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Sojournersoul · M
He already has someone lined up for the year in his unit. He just does not want to feel guilty.
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Nick1 · 61-69, M
You have to decide what you want, a friend, emotional friend, some one to hang out with or just someone for sex.
If you have some good friends, you can survive and do fine all by yourself while he is deployed.
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Quimliqer · 70-79, MVIP
Appears more questions than answers! The awesome thing is you’re asking, not reacting!
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Northwest · M
He's just saying that Dubai is the world's top spot for Eastern European sex workers.
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