Don't marry the person you can have fun with; marry the person you can suffer with.

Hmmm… interesting quote. I married someone I can have fun with and go through hard times with. I married my best friend, and we’ve been through thick and thin.

I rather marry someone to have fun with and let my ex suffer

And those ppl are once or twice in a lifetime if lucky

You should have both

You’re not wrong

And if they're the same person?🤷🏾

I'm not sure we had all that much fun together, but we totally enjoyed being with each other, no matter what was going on. That worked for us.

These are not mutually exclusive goals.