People that overweight aren't pigs or monsters, they're people. Emotionally damaged people. Likely have a big heart, maybe put too much before themselves and their own health because of not having good coping skills. It could be a lot of reasons. But they are still people and still lovable.

In saying that, I've never watched the show because I get so bored with the fat shaming.

My mom was a bigger woman. After seeing what she went through in life, I don't see obesity as gross, I see it as no different than a scar or a drinking problem or any other addict. It's just not as glamorous by societal standards.

I see people on here being friendly with and encouraging a drug addict. Like actual drugs. But if that person was addicted to food nobody would give a shit about them.

Yeah but if you're skinny and don't have other qualities along side those other traits people may not want that person. Like if you're skinny and take care of yourself but are mean for example or toxic.

Also I know it's hard to believe but people can find each other through other means like genuine connection. Some people like bigger people and some like only skinny.

The people shown on that show are usually very vulnerable individuals that are exploited in most instances and/or fetishized. And it is sad

Personality

There is someone for everyone out there. Mines probably trying to push their way through a pull door. 🤷‍♂

I always wondered the same but then you see their partners and I’m like “never mind”.

Wish i knew

Charisma !!

I don't know 🤔

Finding a mate seems to be so complex. Clearly weight and hygiene don't amount to a hill of beans

I have no idea, and I use deodorant and everything 🥲

Fetish for some

There is a fetish out there that relates to literally feeding people to death.

Ikr!