ViciDraco · 41-45, M
I'm not sure if it's true for him, but for me there generally just isn't that much about me to say. Especially if it's with someone I have been around for a long time. My day to day doesn't change much. And most of what I'm paying attention to are the stressful details of life. Another war kicking off, how the finances are doing, how AI is threatening my job and other such things that are just going to bring a conversation down. And even if I talk about them one day, then I won't have anything be to say until something changes or a new crisis emerges.
Nightwings · F
@ViciDraco Perhaps some people just aren't big talkers. I always knew that about him, but I wish he would sometimes think about stuff like our future together, how to decorate the house we may buy one day, what dog breed we should get next, things like that.
froggtongue · M
A lot of men see the stuff they like as being who they are. Consider that he's telling you these things because he wants you to know them about him. Consider playing those video games he mentions the most. And even before you play the games he has if he's telling you how he felt then you can tell him a situation you were in that made you feel the same way. That might open him up to responding to a real world occasion where he felt that.
helenoftroy2000 · 22-25, F
@froggtongue I like chocolate, but I don''t see myself as chocolate
Nightwings · F
@OlderSometimesWiser Yes it was. We never really had those deep conversations some couples do, but our world views and morals align, and we used to spend much more time doing things together (like playing video games lol) than talking.
helenoftroy2000 · 22-25, F
I like chocolate, but I don''t see myself as chocolate
MayorOfCrushtown · M
Nightwings · F
@MayorOfCrushtown No he doesn't complain lol. At this time it's pretty warm so we have electricity almost all the time now. 🌼
helenoftroy2000 · 22-25, F
we talk about what we know