RebelRaven · 51-55, F
Yes, they’re inconsistent and rarely ask personal question to get to know you.
Yeah.. @RebelRaven
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
Considering most people aren't emotionally available, it's harder to tell when someone is.
I think I've fallen into the same pattern of unavailability myself because I'm so bored with shallow interactions I started shutting people out.
I think I've fallen into the same pattern of unavailability myself because I'm so bored with shallow interactions I started shutting people out.
I guess I should have included “or unavailable” in the question.
It’s okay to shut ppl out who don’t resonate with you. @ScreamingFox
It’s okay to shut ppl out who don’t resonate with you. @ScreamingFox
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@soulsrespite you did though, you said "not"...
I don't know about that. I used to enjoy all people and celebrate our differences. I think a lot of people did but something changed. Everything became about avoidance and self. Even people I have a lot in common with ignore or block me.
I used to have a great love for all people, it was genuine. Conversation would flow and for a time we all got real. Now I feel like a pain to include, respond to, anything.
We transitioned into surface level only beings and none of that resonates with me. It makes me sad. Sad for my son.
I don't know about that. I used to enjoy all people and celebrate our differences. I think a lot of people did but something changed. Everything became about avoidance and self. Even people I have a lot in common with ignore or block me.
I used to have a great love for all people, it was genuine. Conversation would flow and for a time we all got real. Now I feel like a pain to include, respond to, anything.
We transitioned into surface level only beings and none of that resonates with me. It makes me sad. Sad for my son.
tiltawhirl · 36-40, F
I tend to only be emotionally available to one person at a time. I can’t handle multiple at the same time. But I can easily tell if someone is or not because I’m extremely attuned to that sort of thing and really it’s kind of obvious. I don’t do surface level very well and I get bored with it quickly.
Good, always trust what you feel. @tiltawhirl
4meAndyou · F
Sometimes there are little clues. For example, a man who wanted to date me and who also wanted me to move in to his house brought me to his house, to view it, apparently, and the place was littered with photos of his deceased wife...even in the bedroom!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Yikes, he wanted to replace her.. @4meAndyou
4meAndyou · F
@soulsrespite Nope...he couldn't commit to another person, because he couldn't let her go.
Yeah, he wanted to pretend she wasn’t dead.. @4meAndyou
SpectralMourning · 41-45, M
I like to think so. I imagine my own feelings can cloud things up sometimes though. Wanting to see what I want to see.
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SpectralMourning · 41-45, M
@soulsrespite I was just implying that I want to see that they are as invested as I am. It's not always easy to accept the fact that they're not.
Sorry, I was playing with your words. I understand now. @SpectralMourning
SpectralMourning · 41-45, M
@soulsrespite I see.
I think the fact that I am emotionally unavailable somewhat negates the process 🤔 I feel it would be like a non driver trying to assess a car 🤔
So self aware, I am proud. 😌 @ostfuidctyvm
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
I can.
You seem perceptive, we always know the truth, but over the years we are taught to ignore ourselves and our intuition. @DearAmbellina2113
Yes pretty much
You read others rly well. You were probably a parentified child.. forced to regulate adults. @chernobylplaygr0unds
@soulsrespite you know me so well ..it's honestly why tolerance is so low these past few years
MellyMel22 · F
Yeah. Only once have I not wanted to believe it.
After some time, yea. **backflips
Kiesel · 56-60, M
Less and less
Do you trust yourself? @Kiesel
Kiesel · 56-60, M
@soulsrespite yes but a fragile state is still present
That’s understandable. @Kiesel
Yes
It’s not always easy. @Notladylike
@soulsrespite It’s not
Yes
I think so.






















