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Can you for the most part tell when someone is emotionally available or not??

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ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
Considering most people aren't emotionally available, it's harder to tell when someone is.

I think I've fallen into the same pattern of unavailability myself because I'm so bored with shallow interactions I started shutting people out.
I guess I should have included “or unavailable” in the question.

It’s okay to shut ppl out who don’t resonate with you. @ScreamingFox
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@soulsrespite you did though, you said "not"...

I don't know about that. I used to enjoy all people and celebrate our differences. I think a lot of people did but something changed. Everything became about avoidance and self. Even people I have a lot in common with ignore or block me.

I used to have a great love for all people, it was genuine. Conversation would flow and for a time we all got real. Now I feel like a pain to include, respond to, anything.

We transitioned into surface level only beings and none of that resonates with me. It makes me sad. Sad for my son.