ArkBallet · 36-40, F
If we’d been close for over a decade and it had always clearly lived in that safe, platonic lane, a Valentine’s gift would feel like a shift. Valentine’s Day isn’t neutral. It’s culturally loaded. So even if the gift itself were small or sweet, I would automatically wonder, Why now? What is this meant to signal?
It wouldn’t necessarily offend me. But it would absolutely make me reassess the dynamic.
It wouldn’t necessarily offend me. But it would absolutely make me reassess the dynamic.
SinlessOnslaught · M
@ArkBallet Oh
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
I’d think it was a really nice gesture. I don’t romanticize Valentine’s Day or Valentine’s Day gifts. I think it’s something that can be celebrated between friends
SinlessOnslaught · M
@Jenny1234 Me too
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
Friends are allowed to give friends gifts. That by itself is not a big deal.
But being that the occasion is Singles Awareness Day, you must be careful. Make sure it is not a romantic gift (stay away from jewelry, etc).
But being that the occasion is Singles Awareness Day, you must be careful. Make sure it is not a romantic gift (stay away from jewelry, etc).
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SinlessOnslaught · M
@sarabee1995 Eh?
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
SinlessOnslaught · M
@sarabee1995 I know but what are you saying
Zonuss · 46-50, M
Valentines Day for most women is an open door 🚪
The right man could come along.
And even if they are taken..if they like the guy that one gift is significant. Trust me. I've seen it a thousand times. A woman's nature is underrated and a complex thing.☺
The right man could come along.
And even if they are taken..if they like the guy that one gift is significant. Trust me. I've seen it a thousand times. A woman's nature is underrated and a complex thing.☺
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@SinlessOnslaught I'm saying that's when many are the most vulnerable.
SinlessOnslaught · M
@Zonuss Vulnerable? This is my friend
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PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
I'd take it as friendship.
SinlessOnslaught · M
@PatientlyWaiting25 A surprising amount of people seem to think V day gifts are strictly romantic.
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
No I'd think it was just sweet as long as it's not mushy.
SinlessOnslaught · M
@ScreamingFox I like this answer
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@SinlessOnslaught no woman is gonna be mad about getting chocolates
Crusher69 · 61-69, M
Valentines day is all about romance - a gift on that day is saying you have some sort of romantic intentions towards the recipient
SinlessOnslaught · M
@Crusher69 Then my childhood friend was gay for me and my brothers.
SinlessOnslaught · M
@Crusher69 And plenty of people feel romantic for their mom I guess.
Crusher69 · 61-69, M
@SinlessOnslaught well - the context was a long term platonic relationship so i assumed it was not parent/child or childhood friend who must have had a crush on you 🤣










