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Women, how would you take it if a man gave you a valentine's gift?

Specifically if you've both been close for more than a decade, and it was pretty clear that everything was platonic.

Would it come off as a romantic advance?
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ArkBallet · 36-40, F
If we’d been close for over a decade and it had always clearly lived in that safe, platonic lane, a Valentine’s gift would feel like a shift. Valentine’s Day isn’t neutral. It’s culturally loaded. So even if the gift itself were small or sweet, I would automatically wonder, Why now? What is this meant to signal?

It wouldn’t necessarily offend me. But it would absolutely make me reassess the dynamic.