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TheRealBarbossa · 36-40, T
I don't have an actual answer, but here's my guess and thoughts.
See yourself through the eyes of the people who do love you.
They know you're not perfect, but they still love you because you bring happiness, light, good things in general into their lifes.
If you can aknowledge your faults, and keep working on becoming a better person, but also see your good qualities, I think that's the point you can start loving yourself.
In other words: You don't need to be perfect, but at the same time strive to be better while knowing you have plenty of good qualities.
I don't know if I'm making any sense, but those are my initial thoughts anyway.
See yourself through the eyes of the people who do love you.
They know you're not perfect, but they still love you because you bring happiness, light, good things in general into their lifes.
If you can aknowledge your faults, and keep working on becoming a better person, but also see your good qualities, I think that's the point you can start loving yourself.
In other words: You don't need to be perfect, but at the same time strive to be better while knowing you have plenty of good qualities.
I don't know if I'm making any sense, but those are my initial thoughts anyway.
