How do you initiate sex ?

Do you do something and/or say something to indicate the intention to another person?

Presumably then that other person responds in a positive complimentary way and doesn't rebuff or ignore the signals. Unless the person can't (such as me) read body language and or doesn't understand choosing signals or love languages.

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PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F

Have you tried any books that explain body language and facial expressions? Maybe it's something that you could learn a different way?

Your partner should also know that it's something that doesn't come naturally for you and be happy for you to take a more direct approach. I think it's pretty sexy being directly told "I really want to have sex with you tonight"

Maybe just normal common sense on when to approach is all you need and just be confident, if you're alone and both relaxed, it shouldn't be a problem. Obviously if you choose to tell her when she's cleaning the cat litter tray or doing a tax form, it might not get you the response you hoped for but I'm sure you know that already. 🙂

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@PatientlyWaiting25 I'm single.

PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F

@zonavar68 then why worry? Just let be what will be xx