Have you ever been able to ask a ex for feedback?

I'm not talking about the immature partners that attack you.

But can offer genuine constructive feedback on why things didn't work out?

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AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

No i don't have many exes, i've lost respect for them so i keep my distance. I know why things didn't work out so i don't need their feedback on it.

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@AngelUnforgiven I hear you.

I think back on previous relationships and I think I was desperate.

I just wanted someone. I wanted to feel complete by having a partner, but I never really met guys who saw me for who I truly was. They saw the fun time, party girl, happy go lucky. So they treated me as a temporary.

I was young.