I guess it depends what you are using for. If you are using it to pick up other people, perhaps you need to ask yourself why? Especially if you already have a partner.
If it is just a place to write, if they seem interested in wanting to know other sides of you, sure, why not?
My thought on this is, if you are doing something you think you need to lie about, why are you doing it?
If it is just a place to write, if they seem interested in wanting to know other sides of you, sure, why not?
My thought on this is, if you are doing something you think you need to lie about, why are you doing it?
Miram · 31-35, F
It depends on why they are using the website.
Your partner doesn't need to know everything you're doing, people you're talking to and every detail of your life in general.
But if you have to actively hide it, something is certainly wrong. You don't hide what you're at peace with. Gotta figure out where the guilt comes from. Maybe a broken promise, misplaced affection or need for it, lack of trust.. etc
Your partner doesn't need to know everything you're doing, people you're talking to and every detail of your life in general.
But if you have to actively hide it, something is certainly wrong. You don't hide what you're at peace with. Gotta figure out where the guilt comes from. Maybe a broken promise, misplaced affection or need for it, lack of trust.. etc
I don't think that they need to be forward about it if they're not being unfaithful in any way. Even people in relationships can have their own spaces to exist in.
My wife knows. She’s not interested, she doesn’t consider it a threat - as well she shouldn’t. She thinks all social media is a waste of time.
FlowerPetal · 22-25, F
@AdmiralPrune she's right though. I agree with her but I can't help it that I like it here. 🙂
@FlowerPetal She’s definitely right. This is just to pass down time. I refuse to take it seriously.
tobynshorty · 51-55, F
Well its up to them and their relationship. My family probably sees this but I am single. No one even cares. They know Im happy.
Acheron · 41-45, M
I don't think it's a need. But as others said the situation of the relationship could dictate that decision.
Donna15 · 41-45, F
I think they should but I know chat with a lot of people who keep SW a secret.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
My wife knows I come here, and I sometimes share with her what I see here.
She does not seem terribly interested.
She does not seem terribly interested.
Prince0217 · M
Maybe ..Yes.
Not sure if I qualify as I am Single.
I may not be on this site for long.
Not sure if I qualify as I am Single.
I may not be on this site for long.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
My husband knew he wasn't interested in joing
Redbeard · 56-60, M
I personally believe that there should be transparency on both sides.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Not my place to judge this. My first response would be: "No" though.
Convivial · 26-30, F
Ideally, yes... But I think it's time dependent too.... In other words, not at first...
hunkalove · 70-79, M
Miley doesn't know I waste precious time on this crapola bottom feeder website and I hope she never finds out. I'm so ashamed!
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
This site is not bad but it's 🫣
FlowerPetal · 22-25, F
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
@FlowerPetal I may tell my partner about this site but i don't have partner so .....we will see in future!
Why would you do that? You’ll be expecting people to tell they are cheating next 🙄