Open Letter to the Ladies at SW

I have written an open letter (below) to all the women here at sw who have met men who took advantage of them. I met someone here at sw several months ago and I was foolish enough to fall for him. He took advantage of me in that he reeled me in and when I gave him what he wanted, he started ignoring me. I see he is regularly commenting on other female members photos about them being beautiful and sexy. I'm not jealous. I don't care about him anymore. But I know he will do the same to other ladies here. He is married btw which is even more pathetic on his end. I was stupid and fell for him and his game. No need to chastise me for being a fool. I've already done it to myself enough.

Dear Women,

I write this letter to warn you about a man here at sw who may enter your life under the guise of kindness and charm. He will present himself as a warm, caring individual, offering compliments and making you feel like the center of his world.

As your connection deepens, he might claim to be really emotionally attached to you, portraying you as his ideal partner, and persuade you to share private photos of yourself.

Ladies, beware for his intentions are not sincere.

Once he has gained your trust and acquired what he desires, he will abruptly discard you and move on to his next target.

Trust your instincts and remain vigilant. Do not fall for his deceptive charm or false promises. Remember that true love and respect do not require you to compromise your values or share personal content before you are ready. Stand firm in your self worth.

TigerLili

FoxyQueen · 51-55, F

I would like to add, be careful what you post here.

Some men are looking for lonely women who desperately want a relationship and have made posts describing their sadness at being alone.

I'm not saying not to post yoir feelings. I'm saying, be aware that becomes a beacon for manipulative men who see your loneliness and will try to use it to get what they want and leave you with nothing.

Pay attention to the things they say, the questions they ask. If they ask you things pretty quickly, like, are you married? Do you live alone? And make statements like, "sounds like men have really let you down", and say ambiguous things that show they really haven't read your posts beyond the emotional ones.

Please be careful. Please be observant. Please be aware of any red flags. You don't owe anyone anything here, no matter what attention they pay you if you feel even slightly off. Listen to that feeling. There's a reason why it's there.