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Hey guys! I need help

I need your advice.
There was a guy i used to talk to,went talked everyday and went on a date but that's it.i felt that something was off with him....no matter how much he begged to go on more dates i kept making up excuses and to be fair i was busy doing my practice at the children's hospital anyways.
He got mad at me for not texting back asap...but i was literally around sick kids,so fuck him🙄

Anyways, when he found out i was sick he refused to talk to me.
He started dating a girl.
Recently he reached out,tested the water...of course i did not respond.

But....i found out he is still with that girl. Not sure if he wanted to cheat or dump her if i said yes...
He said " It is no fix"
How gross is that?? (He is french so sometimes his english confuses me but i am pretty sure "It" meant that girl)

She seems to be in love and imagine marr,lying him and having kids with that piece ov shit.
I feel bad for her,she seems nice and deserves so much better.
Should i send her an insta message about him? Also i am pretty sure he is now back on fetlife looking for someone else...
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DunningKruger · 61-69, M
You could send her a message about your experience with him, but don't expect her to believe you. She will likely just believe that you're jealous and want lover boy back. Beyond that, you aren't responsible for her decisions. She is presumably an adult who can figure things out for herself.
Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F
@DunningKruger i know,it is her choice but how could she decide without knowing?
I'd do it on a fake insta...but honestly i do not need this.
But if i don't warn her,does this make me a horrible person?
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Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F
@DunningKruger she thinks he is pretty awesome
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@Girlbehindthecurtain Your message isn't going to change that, but it will be your due diligence.
Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F
@DunningKruger honestly if she'd choose to stay then that's fine.i just can't decide if i should my best friends said i should but i don't really want to do all this.
I hate how he put this weight on my shoulders
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@Girlbehindthecurtain She's not your responsibility. You don't have to do anything if you don't want to. You can let it go.