For men loooking for a "nurturing" woman

@val70 yes, perhaps, but it is how you go about getting what you need. If you are only selfishly taking and not giving what is wanted in return, that's not a situation most women want to find themselves in. Equity is important.

@val70 I don't disagree with you that women can be just as bad. Unhealthy views on what a relationship is runs rampant, particularly in the western world. We've stopped looking at a partner as an equal person on a journey with you, but as a resource. We have dehumanized the idea of a partner in so many ways. We have become disconnected as a society to see others in anything other than what benefits someone brings to us.

We need a change as a whole as to why we have relationships and what purpose they serve us as individuals and as partners.

@FoxyQueen Go christian, you mean?

@val70 Ew no. Lol just change our perspectives on what a relationship is versus what it should be to be healthy and fulfilling.

I would never suggest someone turn to organized religion for anything. Lol that would be the worst place to turn for relationship help.

@FoxyQueen Really? Morality as a rule is the greatest when one actually does believe in something greater than oneself

@val70 Morality is a personal choice and morality is subjective, depending on each person. It is why it is so difficult to legislate because everyone has varying degrees of morality.

@FoxyQueen Love God and love your neighbour as yourself isn't that hard though

@val70 True, but if you need a god to make you be a good person, then you probably aren't a good person. You should be good to others because that is your inclination, not because you're afraid of consequences.