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He missed my point entirely

I explained that if a guy claims he wants to be my partner, I expect him to add positive things to my life. Not just money- he needs to provide love, affection, friendship, be someone I can depend on, show me support, communicate with me, be funny with me, make me feel safe.

If a guy doesn't do any of that, and I am continuing to live my life alone and struggling like I have since day one, please explain to me why I would I need him at all? Hell, I can live that way by myself without the added weight of a guy who offers nothing. 🤷🏻‍♀

He said, "Now you're starting to sound like a real Arizonian!"

He either understands (and doesn't care) that I'm directing my statement at him, or it completely went over his head. Neither would surprise me. 🤦🏻‍♀
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whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
Just an idle question.. Exactly what is it you are offering him ?😷
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@whowasthatmaskedman you'd have to ask him. If I offer him nothing, why does he want to be my partner?
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
@DearAmbellina2113 Indeed. And why would either of you want toi take on someone who wasnt going to add you your lives? People dont have to be a couple thses days..😷
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@whowasthatmaskedman that's exactly what I said in my post.
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
@DearAmbellina2113 My bad. It did sound as if you had expectations..😷
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@whowasthatmaskedman I do have expectations. Anyone in a relationship should.
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
@DearAmbellina2113 OK. I thought so. But i couldnt see what they were..
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