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He missed my point entirely

I explained that if a guy claims he wants to be my partner, I expect him to add positive things to my life. Not just money- he needs to provide love, affection, friendship, be someone I can depend on, show me support, communicate with me, be funny with me, make me feel safe.

If a guy doesn't do any of that, and I am continuing to live my life alone and struggling like I have since day one, please explain to me why I would I need him at all? Hell, I can live that way by myself without the added weight of a guy who offers nothing. 🤷🏻‍♀

He said, "Now you're starting to sound like a real Arizonian!"

He either understands (and doesn't care) that I'm directing my statement at him, or it completely went over his head. Neither would surprise me. 🤦🏻‍♀
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caccoon · 36-40
It sounds like he's avoidant and that was a way to dodge your concerns

And girl, you are so en point.

I have spent a lot of my life putting my worth in how my partner feels about me

It's not like it has been easy, but I feel a lot more peaceful when I am single. And I'm glad you're working toward that for yourself.

Because damnit, you deserve it.