@FoxyQueen ok
So just curious about the Question you asked the AI to get that response

@FoxyQueen ok

@SilentObZerver Actually, the fact that you call it whining is pretty awful.

That usually indicates an insecurity or fear of not being heard. That reflects more on your inability to provide the security your partner needs, which isn't surprising by your attitude.

@FoxyQueen
I understand you're not comfortable with the word "whining", and I respect that.

But when someone keeps repeating the same complaints over and over..... even when you're genuinely listening — yet refuses to reflect or clearly communicate what the actual issue is... it stops being healthy.

At that point, it feels more like they’re attached to the feeling of being upset rather than making any effort to heal or grow. And honestly, that doesn’t help anyone.

@SilentObZerver It isn't that I'm not comfortable with the word. Your useage of it is condecending, as if somehow, you never whine because it is beneathe you.

Repeating yourself does not resolve you of the fact that you are unwilling to understand that your partner is looking to you for comfort, support and security and your response is, "Quit whining!"

Work on yourself and how to become a better partner before you hurt and damage another person please.

@Pretzel lol you're saying they usually dont wanna hear "calm down"

@SilentObZerver
If that's what they need, then yes.

@FoxyQueen That is true, and to be honest, my ex was actually almost the opposite; she seemed to embody all the Men traits from the book!

@iamthe99 I won't lie, I do too, but only because I don't have a partner to help and rely on, so I wear the pants under my dress.

@FoxyQueen It's all what works for you in a relationship :)