If you are married, or have been married (even if you're not now), why did you get married?
Was the decision fully mutual 100 percent without reservations or expectations, and could you feel you could 100 percent trust the other person to see it the same way?
How has (or did) it pan out over time in reality?
Good? Bad? Ugly? Indifferent? Toxic? Dangerous?
If you've been married and aren't now, did you break up amicably, or badly? Did you get screwed over by your ex trying to destroy your life and get all your money, house, etc. and brainwash your kids to hate you? I know from experience that breakups just involving children are not always pleasant and are rarely an overly positive situation.
Anecdotally it seems men always fare worse in breakups that women, as the 'system' skews in favour of of women to almost be default make out that they are the 'victim' and men are the intigators/perpetrators of everything that causes relationships to break down.
How has (or did) it pan out over time in reality?
Good? Bad? Ugly? Indifferent? Toxic? Dangerous?
If you've been married and aren't now, did you break up amicably, or badly? Did you get screwed over by your ex trying to destroy your life and get all your money, house, etc. and brainwash your kids to hate you? I know from experience that breakups just involving children are not always pleasant and are rarely an overly positive situation.
Anecdotally it seems men always fare worse in breakups that women, as the 'system' skews in favour of of women to almost be default make out that they are the 'victim' and men are the intigators/perpetrators of everything that causes relationships to break down.
